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Progressive Nation And Society: An Introspection

Are we really a progressive nation?   Before putting this question we should ask ourselves that how progressive we really are as an individual and as a society? We always talk about and fight for our rights (as there's a charm attach to it) but we don't talk about our duties, our duties towards environment, for humanity and just simply move away from this question as it hardly matters to anyone. With more rights, more duties come simultaneously. Its a pity blame game, where, whenever u feel you can't do anything but still wants to impress upon others for image, you start blaming everything that comes in your way so that you can simply walk away from the responsibilities you have to fulfill and cope up with. Same theory goes with the nation building but we will understand this, only when we will associate ourselves with the nation, nature, environment and start thinking of us as nation builders, as humanitarians and as nature lovers. -Isar

New Age Social Media Psychologists

People these days on social media ceaselessly and mindlessly pass comments and make fun of mental health of others and even suicides. Some of them abuse and call a departed soul as coward & what not.   Have you ever read about psychology or do you understand psychiatry? Do you really know about someone's mental health? Do you even understand what a person is going through in his mind? Don't talk like an uneducated, narrow minded and shallow lot.  Please don't make fun and mockery of mental health, emotions, thought process, depression, distress. These are serious matters which need to be addressed. Because of people like these, vulnerable individuals don't share their problems, because of such social media experts, they don't open up and it is because of these people discussing mental health is still a taboo in our country. We all know that it is because of this insensitive lot, some individuals are afraid of bullying and because of this mentality of society, ps...

Hypocrisy and Selectivism: Trending These Days

Real hypocrisy starts when you start filtering for what to take stand & for what to create a hype and for what to not say a single word . Its basically be called as selective activism and has nothing to do with overall progress, liberty or humanity. People take selective stands and show partial/biased or prejudiced solidarity with only those causes that matches and fulfill their perception/ideology/agenda/ initiative or vision. See how hypocrisy prevails by taking an example: Its shameful and very unfortunate that most of the people who were getting over-emotional on a shameful incident of elephant killing or a selective incidence of cow killing, have never ever said a word on beef, leather industry, illegal forest produce trafficking including innocent animals and celebration of festivals by killing thousands of animals at once. Our society is full of hypocrites, those just want to fulfill/project and propose their narrative and perception only.   And after read...

Distress And Today's Society: An Awareness

Everyone is busy in their self centered rat race to earn more & more materialistic possessions... Actually it's about the people and the atmosphere around you! Prejudices and judgments are very easy but we have to understand each other's emotions, points and position by putting ourselves into somebody else's shoes; then only we can feel what they go through. We should always try to get some quality time. Money is important but it is not everything. Money can't buy you real people and caring hearts. Its very sad that depression and distress is capturing us from inside.   "Its a harsh reality indeed."   Now a days people are putting their Insta-FB statuses, like " talk to us, we are available " but reality depends on how do you actually feel it from inside, the core of your heart. Only putting status will not solve the issue. First, we have to learn to respect emotions. Build your vibes so strong, loving & caring that if someone is in trouble h...

CHILD’S CONSTRAINT: A SHORT STORY

CHILD’S  CONSTRAINT: A SHORT STORY One cloudy afternoon in a ramshackle house at some shabby locality in the outskirts of Noida city, “Hey mom, see what I’m using”, Tarun came running to her mom and said. “What is this?” asked Shanti without looking at him. “Look at it what I’m playing”, said Tarun while watching a video on a Tablet. “What are you watching”, Shanti asked in interest. “Look, my friend Sameer has given this to me”, Tarun answered. “Oh! This is the same kind of device which Raj Sahab”s son use, I observed this while I was working in Raj Sahab’s house”, Shanti replied. “How Sameer got this one?” Shanti asked out of curiosity.          “Sameer’s brother has returned from Bangaluru and got this for him”, answered Tarun. Till then Tarun’s younger sister Rani came after playing with her friends and requested Tarun “Please show me what you have got”. Tarun while making faces replied, “Show you! No, get aside”. Shanti in a tone o...

Religion and Extremism: In Today's aspect

We are not God loving people; We are God-fearing people; as long as fear exists, religion and rituals will prevail. Religion (as we see their emerged forms in new world) has devastated the beauty of this whole planet and yes this is true.  All these fanatic/extremist religious organisations we see today don't even know what the hell religion say about the world, humanity, nature and spirituality. Only thing they know is to fulfill and serve their ego in the name of God. There is clear cut bigotry happening in the name of religion in this whole world and every so-called and proclaimed religious contractors (yes this is the word I'm using) should be blamed. "Why can't people understand that religion is a very personal thing and why everyone have to manifest and project their religious beliefs to others?"  THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO NEED These religious laws and overrated sentiment/beliefs should have no place in the constitutional republics. One can live with their own ...

An Expert in Everything

                                    An expert in everything In recent times we have seen, everyone wants to project himself/herself an expert in everything (its a trend now-a-days). Whatever happens there are always a bunch of people ready to shout and pass their judgments oriented by their mentality. This is what we call as clear cut prejudice. If somebody dies or commits suicide, without knowing anything people (empowered by social media) start commenting on the issue and suddenly become experts in psychology as if they know each and everything related to the mental heath, psychopathology and behavioral sciences. Likewise whenever something happens in our borders everyone become an expert in defense as if they have served the military or have some access to the satellites. I mean why, why can't we simply say that I am not an expert in every-field, I don't know much about it. There is nothing t...